Tuesday, October 18, 2011

At 6am

Maddie: Mom, can I have goldfish?

Self: No Maddie. You can have cereal. It's morning - no snacks until after breakfast. Would you like to watch Arthur? Cat in the Hat is ending and it's on after that.

Maddie: Ok, Mommy. Are these Grammy's knitting needles?

Self: Yes, Maddie. Please don't touch them, they are longer than mine and I don't want you to get hurt.

Maddie: Can I have an oreo?

Self (fetching cereal): No Maddie. You can have cereal. It's morning - no snacks until after breakfast.

Maddie (has fetched and is now playing with the 14" long knitting needles): Mom, you said you were putting on Arthur. The Cat in the Hat is on ... but it's ending!

Self (articulating very precisely and retrieving needles): MADELINE. I said please do not play with Grammy's needles. And yes, Maddie. Cat in the Hat is ending, Arthur is coming on.

Maddie: Mom, can I have an Oreo?

Self: MADDIE. There is a bowl of cereal in your lap. IT IS DARK OUT. NO.

(pause while I take a deep breathe... glance back over)

Self: MADELINE. GIVE me the plastic hanger, get it out of your ear and eat your breakfast.

Maddie (muttering darkly): Now I have nuthin to play with.

Self (tossing a toy in the vicinity of her lap): Here, love, have a baby doll. It's not sharp.

Maddie: Mom! Wait!! .... Can I have an Oreo?


Saturday, October 8, 2011

Gonna take a sentimental journey...


...Gonna set my heart at ease.
Gonna make a Sentimental Journey,
to renew old memories...

(quoted from http://www.thesjo.com/pages/dorisday.htm)

In December 2007 I wrote a post on TheBabywearer.com ... for years I was part of an amazing online babywearing community. As first a poster, then later a Boston Babywearers leader, baby carrier retailer, instructor I eventually enjoyed helping TheBabywearer.com as a moderator for the Disabilities, Special Needs, Chronic Illness and Babywearing  forum. It was an active, vibrant part of my life and I am constantly grateful for the amazing gifts babywearing gave my family, along with the amazing friendships I developed.

I'm copying that post over here (and adding on to it) to save it for myself. It's a scrapbook of pictures of a  time I will never forget. For folks who aren't carrier geeks, you won't get what I mean by the carrier names but I hope you enjoy the pictures. You really don't need to look at them all but oh come on ... some of you will. You know who you are!

As a side note, the positioning in many of the early pictures is NOT considered safe by today's standards - precisely why educational groups like Babywearing International and online communities such as TheBabywearer.com are so vital.

Audrey in Rosado - 1 wk old


Audrey with Maid-of-Honor Mommy at her Auntie Carolyn's wedding (almost 4wks old)


Audrey at The Butterfly Place


Audrey in my Ultimate Baby Wrap (don't buy one) and in Daddy's Rosado




Audrey in Sachi Meitai - my first back carry!


Audrey in GypsyMama Poncho (or Melissa dressed as a foothill)


My first back-wrap - Audrey in Storch Ulli


Audrey in Didymos Katja


Audrey wrapping Mickey in a long silk


Audrey in Didy Swing


Audrey in Didymos Fabian and Bjoern




Audrey in Bara Barn Cornflower


Audrey in Bara Barn Chili, Maddie in my tummy at the Cape


Audrey in Didymos Altarosa, Maddie in Tummy ... followed by DH under Altarosa and Audrey on Altarosa...







Audrey in Vatanai Teesta, Maddie in tummy


Audrey on mommy, Maddie in tummy at King Richard's Faire


Hospital stash for Maddie's birth (bottom lt, peanut shell fleece, top lt nat brown indio DIY RS, lt to rt, perlmutt indio, teesta, katya)


Maddie's first wrapjob in Didymos Perlmutt, at 3 days


Leaving the hospital in Peanut Shell (Maddie 5 days)


Maddie at 1 wk 


Maddie's first back carry in Ellaroo Podaegi


Maddie - yep she's really in there (3wks)


Maddie at Stone Zoo Lights. I needed a scarf. (4wks)


Maddie in Vatanai Koira (5wks)


Maddie w/Bridesmaid Mommy in custom Kalea at Uncle Teddy's Wedding (6wks)


Maddie in very special handmade podaegi (6 wks) on Christmas Eve


Happy Maddie!


Audrey in Vatanai Pamir


Maddie in Nori babywearing vest


Maddie asleep w/katja at LLL conference


Maddie, a wrap and a cougar


Maddie in Travelling Tamvickle


Maddie in my very special Taitasi


Maddie after her Christening 


Gore Place Sheepshearing Festival 2007


Maddie (asleep), Paul and I swing dancing in Didymos Bleu Indio at Amy's wedding


Daddy and Maddie at the Stone Zoo


Maddie in Calin Bleu at the Cape and raspberry picking at Brooksby Farm



Audrey in a Ten Toes MT


Audrey bouncing her baby in pouch...


Maddie playing safe in Didymos Kobalt Nino w/wool


 at a Nahant beach clean up(taken by Audrey), Audrey same day)



Maddie 4th of July


At the Butterfly place - 3 years after the first time


Me and my girls, in Didymos Zyklam ... Happy Holidays!


DH and Maddie in Green/black/white indio - his favorite - at the Roger Williams Zoo, and another with both girls....






After 8 weeks unable to babywear due to a serious injury, my doc ok'd short duration wearing...
Maddie at 16m in our favorite snuggle wrap ... Calin Bleu Fleece Candy Stripe...you have no idea what this picture means to me! Well maybe you do - posting it even tho it isn't the most flattering



3 day old niece Lilla in the same wrap


And my sweet nephew Eliot in Laguna Elipsen


almost 4 year old Audrey in her new job as wrap shipper - this earned her a nickle


18m Maddie in our MBD Calyx at the Butterfly Place ... aaaaaaaagain


18m Maddie asleep in Ten Toes mutt


18m Maddieand almost 4 y/o Audrey in arms at the Boys and Girls Club carnival


At a wedding with Maddie in Wendy's dyed Pfau - rockin this ruck in 4in heels!


Audrey wearing that silk again ... age 4


And one sleepless night they BOTH want to be worn ...
  


At the zoo  ... look close and you can see my trusty cane


At a pow-wow 


At the Audobon Society's Garden in The Woods Butterfly Day ... Maddie leading the way with her map in my Naglikti


Maddie asleep in Maruyama at the doctor's office - ruptured eardrum! Amazing doctor did her whole exam while wrapped. March '09


In a fleece blanket after a long day at the beach, April '09


After the Big Apple Circus in Olives in Applesauce, April '09



My last times wearing my littlest one -  February and July, 2010




Maddie age 4y, wearing twins

Wearing my god-daughter, Lorelei Temperance. August, 2011