Maddie: Mom, can I have goldfish?
Self: No Maddie. You can have cereal. It's morning - no snacks until after breakfast. Would you like to watch Arthur? Cat in the Hat is ending and it's on after that.
Maddie: Ok, Mommy. Are these Grammy's knitting needles?
Self: Yes, Maddie. Please don't touch them, they are longer than mine and I don't want you to get hurt.
Maddie: Can I have an oreo?
Self (fetching cereal): No Maddie. You can have cereal. It's morning - no snacks until after breakfast.
Maddie (has fetched and is now playing with the 14" long knitting needles): Mom, you said you were putting on Arthur. The Cat in the Hat is on ... but it's ending!
Self (articulating very precisely and retrieving needles): MADELINE. I said please do not play with Grammy's needles. And yes, Maddie. Cat in the Hat is ending, Arthur is coming on.
Maddie: Mom, can I have an Oreo?
Self: MADDIE. There is a bowl of cereal in your lap. IT IS DARK OUT. NO.
(pause while I take a deep breathe... glance back over)
Self: MADELINE. GIVE me the plastic hanger, get it out of your ear and eat your breakfast.
Maddie (muttering darkly): Now I have nuthin to play with.
Self (tossing a toy in the vicinity of her lap): Here, love, have a baby doll. It's not sharp.
Maddie: Mom! Wait!! .... Can I have an Oreo?
Saturday, October 8, 2011
...Gonna set my heart at ease.
Gonna make a Sentimental Journey,
to renew old memories...
(quoted from http://www.thesjo.com/pages/dorisday.htm)
In December 2007 I wrote a post on TheBabywearer.com ... for years I was part of an amazing online babywearing community. As first a poster, then later a Boston Babywearers leader, baby carrier retailer, instructor I eventually enjoyed helping TheBabywearer.com as a moderator for the Disabilities, Special Needs, Chronic Illness and Babywearing forum. It was an active, vibrant part of my life and I am constantly grateful for the amazing gifts babywearing gave my family, along with the amazing friendships I developed.
I'm copying that post over here (and adding on to it) to save it for myself. It's a scrapbook of pictures of a time I will never forget. For folks who aren't carrier geeks, you won't get what I mean by the carrier names but I hope you enjoy the pictures. You really don't need to look at them all but oh come on ... some of you will. You know who you are!
As a side note, the positioning in many of the early pictures is NOT considered safe by today's standards - precisely why educational groups like Babywearing International and online communities such as TheBabywearer.com are so vital.
Audrey in Rosado - 1 wk old
Audrey with Maid-of-Honor Mommy at her Auntie Carolyn's wedding (almost 4wks old)
Audrey at The Butterfly Place
Audrey in my Ultimate Baby Wrap (don't buy one) and in Daddy's Rosado
Audrey in Sachi Meitai - my first back carry!
Audrey in GypsyMama Poncho (or Melissa dressed as a foothill)
My first back-wrap - Audrey in Storch Ulli
Audrey in Didymos Katja
Audrey wrapping Mickey in a long silk
Audrey in Didy Swing
Audrey in Didymos Fabian and Bjoern
Audrey in Bara Barn Cornflower
Audrey in Bara Barn Chili, Maddie in my tummy at the Cape
Audrey in Didymos Altarosa, Maddie in Tummy ... followed by DH under Altarosa and Audrey on Altarosa...
Audrey in Vatanai Teesta, Maddie in tummy
Audrey on mommy, Maddie in tummy at King Richard's Faire
Hospital stash for Maddie's birth (bottom lt, peanut shell fleece, top lt nat brown indio DIY RS, lt to rt, perlmutt indio, teesta, katya)
Maddie's first wrapjob in Didymos Perlmutt, at 3 days
Leaving the hospital in Peanut Shell (Maddie 5 days)
Maddie at 1 wk
Maddie's first back carry in Ellaroo Podaegi
Maddie - yep she's really in there (3wks)
Maddie at Stone Zoo Lights. I needed a scarf. (4wks)
Maddie in Vatanai Koira (5wks)
Maddie w/Bridesmaid Mommy in custom Kalea at Uncle Teddy's Wedding (6wks)
Maddie in very special handmade podaegi (6 wks) on Christmas Eve
Audrey in Vatanai Pamir
Maddie in Nori babywearing vest
Maddie asleep w/katja at LLL conference
Maddie, a wrap and a cougar
Maddie in Travelling Tamvickle
Maddie in my very special Taitasi
Maddie after her Christening
Gore Place Sheepshearing Festival 2007
Maddie (asleep), Paul and I swing dancing in Didymos Bleu Indio at Amy's wedding
Daddy and Maddie at the Stone Zoo
Maddie in Calin Bleu at the Cape and raspberry picking at Brooksby Farm
Audrey in a Ten Toes MT
Audrey bouncing her baby in pouch...
Maddie playing safe in Didymos Kobalt Nino w/wool
at a Nahant beach clean up(taken by Audrey), Audrey same day)
Maddie 4th of July
At the Butterfly place - 3 years after the first time
Me and my girls, in Didymos Zyklam ... Happy Holidays!
DH and Maddie in Green/black/white indio - his favorite - at the Roger Williams Zoo, and another with both girls....
After 8 weeks unable to babywear due to a serious injury, my doc ok'd short duration wearing...
Maddie at 16m in our favorite snuggle wrap ... Calin Bleu Fleece Candy Stripe...you have no idea what this picture means to me! Well maybe you do - posting it even tho it isn't the most flattering
3 day old niece Lilla in the same wrap
almost 4 year old Audrey in her new job as wrap shipper - this earned her a nickle
18m Maddie in our MBD Calyx at the Butterfly Place ... aaaaaaaagain
18m Maddie asleep in Ten Toes mutt
18m Maddieand almost 4 y/o Audrey in arms at the Boys and Girls Club carnival
At a wedding with Maddie in Wendy's dyed Pfau - rockin this ruck in 4in heels!
Audrey wearing that silk again ... age 4
And one sleepless night they BOTH want to be worn ...
At the zoo ... look close and you can see my trusty cane
At a pow-wow
At the Audobon Society's Garden in The Woods Butterfly Day ... Maddie leading the way with her map in my Naglikti
Maddie asleep in Maruyama at the doctor's office - ruptured eardrum! Amazing doctor did her whole exam while wrapped. March '09
In a fleece blanket after a long day at the beach, April '09
After the Big Apple Circus in Olives in Applesauce, April '09
My last times wearing my littlest one - February and July, 2010
Maddie age 4y, wearing twins
Wearing my god-daughter, Lorelei Temperance. August, 2011